Top 15 early dating ‘icks’ revealed
As Valentine’s Day approaches a new poll has revealed the top things Brits say and do too early on dates that puts potential matches off.
According to the data some of the top ways to over-do the early stages of a relationship are suggesting baby names, talking about moving in together – and dropping the ‘I Love You’ bomb too early.
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Four out of ten respondents consider an early introduction to parents as off-putting, while others view premature social media posts about the relationship as coming on too strong.
Other early-stage blunders, according to the research, include incessantly following up on texts if the other person doesn’t respond or leaving a toothbrush at their place after only the second date.
The research was commissioned by Krispy Kreme in collaboration with local dating app happn to launch ‘Doughnuts & Dates’ spots to help couples in the early stage of dating who worry they’re coming on too strong.
According to the survey, when it comes to Valentine’s Day, 54% of participants believe it’s challenging for daters to find the right balance between doing too much and not enough.
Individuals often avoid making Valentine’s plans to prevent seeming overly eager or because it could lead to awkwardness.
“Valentine’s Day dates shouldn’t need to be stressful,” a spokesperson for the doughnut brand stated, “especially in initial dates and new relationships.”
Krispy Kreme and happn have created ‘Doughnuts & Dates’ spots
They added: “The app has tracked down the top spots across the UK for more authentic, relaxed dates where we can reward couples who are taking it slow.”
The free date packs will be offered out at popular outdoor date locations: St James’ Park (London), Piccadilly Gardens (Manchester) and Moonlit Park (Birmingham).
According to the poll, half of the respondents consider Valentine’s Day gifts as ‘tacky’ and four in 10 don’t intend to purchase a gift for their new partner or date this year. But, 29% confessed they would feel disappointed if their partner didn’t plan anything
happn’s dating expert commented: “Whether you’re sharing a moment with someone new, are five dates in, or even starting a new relationship, we’ve located the top spots for a no-pressure Valentine’s Day.”
They continued: “This way daters can focus on what really matters this Valentine’s – enjoying one another’s company in their local area, one doughnut & date at a time.”
TOP 15 WAYS TO OVERDO IT IN THE EARLY STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP:
- Picking out baby names
- Talking about moving in together before you’ve seen their home
- Saying you love them very early on
- Telling people you’re officially a couple when you’re still at the ‘talking’ stage
- Calling the other person your ‘soulmate’
- Asking the other person to meet their parents
- Chasing up texts if the other person doesn’t reply soon enough
- Leaving a toothbrush at their place after the second date
- Referring to their pet as ‘ours’ to other people e.g. when walking the dog
- Filling their social media with pics of you both together
- Making really elaborate or over the top Valentine’s Day plans
- Showering them with gifts
- Putting a couple photo as your phone or laptop home screen
- Planning a holiday together
- Changing your relationship status on social media