30 Gifts For Couples Who’ve Been Together So Long That They’ve Run Out Of Gifts To Get Each Other

An indoor s'mores maker, a "What I Love About Us" fill-in-the-blank book, a Lego rose bouquet and a Bartesian cocktail machine from Amazon.

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Tushy
A Tushy bidet attachment if you’ve been with your S.O. so long that you know all their dirty secrets

This’ll leave them with a cleaner crack and help y’all reduce the amount of TP you use. Plus it has the added benefit of water temperature control, meaning you can control how warm or cold the spray is.

This is the bidet I use (sadly, I have the Version 2.0 version but will definitely upgrade if mine ever goes kaput), and I 100% recommend it to my friends, family, and to you, dear reader. Installation was pretty simple; from start to poop, it took about 15 minutes. The sensation is…interesting…to say the least, but you definitely get used to it. In fact, I recently moved apartments, and it’s taken me a while to hook up the bidet (I’m a procrastinator, OK?!). Oh, how I’ve missed my bidet during this time (and I’m sure my butt feels the same way). But seriously, I cannot stress how life-changing getting a bidet is.

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Amazon
A scratch-off world map for the couple that’s always exploring

Promising review: “I ordered this as a gift for my boyfriend who is a pilot. My thought was we could use it to scratch off places we visit together or even places he has flown to for work. He absolutely loved it! It is the perfect size, perfect for framing and hanging on the wall; he plans to get an open frame and scratch off places while it hangs on the wall. It was delivered tube style and I was hesitant about some countries being scratched off like others noted but it was delivered spotless! I highly recommend this map for anyone. I’m not sure I could’ve found a better-quality map either!” — Ashley C.

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The Adventure Challenge: Couples Edition — a book of scratch-off dates to add some spontaneity to a long-term relationship

And here’s an instant camera you can send along with the book if you know your giftee doesn’t have one.

Promising review: “I bought this for my boyfriend as a Valentine’s Day gift! We both suck at choosing dates, so this helps decide for us. We tried one last night and had an absolute blast! I feel like the way these dates are tailored helps so much in bonding on a deeper level, and it is helping to strengthen our relationship. I cannot wait to choose another date soon!” — Kaycee Lee

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A National Geographic geode kit that’ll make for a smashing gift. Now hand them those goggles, please!
Amazon

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It comes with 10 geodes of varying sizes as well as goggles and a display stand.

Promising review: “My 9-year-old niece gets these every year for Christmas. It is a new gift every time! She loves to put on safety glasses and swing that hammer! The geodes are always beautiful. She also loves the element of surprise! This is a wonderful gift that will engage even kids who are not into the sciences. Every year she takes pieces in to share with her class. She also loves to give pieces away as little gifts or mementos. Nat Geo never disappoints!” — Kristin D.

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A no-tools-required dual-showerhead because tandem showers should be a romantic experience instead of a fight

Boona is a small business on a mission to make showers more enjoyable, whether you’re showering alone or with a partner.

Promising review: “Wow. Just wow. I’ve wanted dual showerheads since my husband, and I are often showering and getting ready for work at the same time. However, the cost of a bathroom remodel has always been much too daunting. Luckily, a friend of mine recently told me about the tandem shower, and I am SO GLAD they did. It arrived quickly, in perfect condition, and was incredibly easy to install. The whole unboxing and installation took less than 10 minutes, easily. It fits our pre-existing showerhead with no issue, and the tandem shower is pressure-mounted and fits very securely. No drilling or damage to the bathroom or walls whatsoever. I have to admit, there were two things I was a little concerned about before its arrival. Obviously, the shower pressure was a biggie. I am pleased to say there was NO discernible change in shower pressure. I also love how you can easily toggle between using both shower heads at once and either one separately. Secondly, I was worried after installation, it would look like it was an afterthought or it wouldn’t match or coordinate with our bathroom. I COULDN’T HAVE BEEN MORE WRONG. It is beautiful, and the chrome matches our bathroom hardware perfectly. It’s funny how something so simple and affordable can really upgrade your morning routine, but the tandem shower has done exactly that.” — Nicole M Luszczyk

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Amazon
A handy puzzle board if you and your partner are big on puzzles but small on space

It has four drawers to store puzzle pieces and provides a large enough flat surface to put together a 1,500-piece puzzle.

Promising review: “My husband and I recently purchased this as a Christmas gift for ourselves! During the winter, we puzzle in place of gardening! We just finished a 1,000-piece puzzle on it and loved it! The drawers slide right out for sorting, and the puzzle table is easily moved. A great gift for retired folks!” — Karen G.

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A hands casting kit for immortalizing the hand that’s guided you through many of life’s challenges

This large-size bucket will fit two adult hands, two adult hands and one small child, one extra-large adult hand or two to four child hands. There is an extra-large version if you want to cast two extra-large hands or have three or more people who want to participate.

Promising review: “This kit is amazing. I got it for my husband and I to do for our 10-year anniversary. It is very easy to use, and it came out amazing!! Every single detail of our hands came through, even our nail beds, the veins in his hands, etc. It dried quickly and came apart nicely. We are waiting for 14 days for it to completely dry so we can paint it. Worth every cent I paid. I highly recommend this to anyone!!” — ItTakesAllOfUs

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A pair of fleece-lined joggers so your perpetually cold S.O. can walk around the house without needing to wear 20 layers of clothing

Promising review: “I’m very happy with these warm pants. My house is very cold in the winter, and I am very cold in the winter. A few reviewers commented that the fit is weird. It is not. These are sweatpants with a thick lining; what did you expect? They are very comfortable and warm. They are stiffer than regular sweatpants because of the lining. But they are sweatpants — meaning they were never meant to make you look like a fashion queen. Just imagine curling up on the sofa with hot chocolate and a friendly cat during the polar vortex in your fleece-lined pants. Nice and cozy!” — Angela Thompson

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Amazon
A dual-zone comforter that’ll keep the peace in the literal and figurative marital bed

Promising review: “This comforter is what we’ve always needed. My husband and I are always tangled in blankets because I need more but yet they always end up on his side. This comforter provides an all-in-one solution that keeps me warm and him cool and our bedroom looking calm and zen.” — Hannah

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A pound of cereal marshmallows, because you’ve tolerated them eating the marshmallows from your box of Lucky Charms for far too long

Promising review: “Buying these charms was one of the best decisions of my life. The bag is twice the size of my head. The marshmallows are aesthetically pleasing and delicious. It’s everything I ever wanted in a snack.” — Amazon Customer

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An 11-in-1 Instant Pot Duo Crisp if you want to give them two gifts in one

This do-it-all kitchen appliance can air fry, roast, bake, dehydrate, pressure cook, slow cook, cook rice, make yogurt, steam, sauté, sterilize and warm food.

Promising review: “I LOVE my Instant Pot. I worked in the culinary/hospitality industry for four years, so I know my way around the kitchen. What the Instant Pot allows me to do is create more homemade, freshly prepared items in half the time that foods would normally take to cook. I am a vegan, so I cook a lot of air-fried tofu, dried beans, and scratch-based food items. This accessory is a phenomenal addition to my kitchen. Honestly, I don’t even use my stove anymore; all I need is the Instant Pot for 90% of the things I cook for myself and my partner.” — Max

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Frankie Print Co / Etsy
A heartwarming (and body-warming!) love letter blanket for the couple who still swap love notes

Frankie Print Co is a Canadian small business based in Calgary, Alberta.

Promising review: “Blanket came out WONDERFUL! Our handwriting on it is clear and legible, unsmudged, and the frill on the border of it is an awesome touch.” — Joseph Gaither

Shipping Info: Orders ship from North Carolina, so delivery time depends on your location. Check the product listing for an estimated arrival date.

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A box of 100 conversation starters so you never stop learning new things about your S.O.

Promising review: “After 30 years with my spouse, we didn’t really talk much anymore. It was the usual what work junk happened, what was on the schedule, what we needed from the store, and what was on our phones. I am so grateful I stumbled on these cards. I gave them and a puzzle to my husband for Christmas. I think he thought it was corny, until we started. I started off telling him how much I miss conversation with him and that I love him and I would like to date him again. It has been wonderful to sit and work on the puzzle, with some low music on in the background, TALK and share a glass of wine together. We are loving these cards!” — KTB

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Amazon
Or a set of 150 questions inspired by the Love Language test to deepen your connection

Promising review: “My boyfriend and I have been together for a really long time and this game was still so much fun! We played it after a night of drinking wine and cooking so we were pretty honest during these questions. We almost went through the whole deck in one sitting but finally put it away so we can play again.” — Chelsbells32

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A fun indoor s’mores maker that’ll satisfy their craving for their fave campfire treat

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Promising review: “Quality family bonding time together is difficult to come by. Not sure how long this gadget will last and how many times we will use it, but we surely did have some good laughs and enjoyed a good time together around these chocolates and marshmallows.” — Xpert

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Uncommon Goods
An art kit for helping you both tap into your creative (and maybe freaky?) side

The kit comes with plastic sheeting, white cotton canvas, black nontoxic washable paint, disposable slippers, and a body scrubber.

Promising review: “I got this as an anniversary gift, and it was absolutely perfect! We had so much fun spreading the colors on the canvas, making our piece of art, and then cleaning it off of each other afterward. It was messy, sexy, and so much fun! We will definitely be getting more of these kits for other rooms in our house.” — KORSIFER

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Amazon
A fill-in-the-blank book so you can spell out all the reasons you love your significant other

Promising review: “This book was a lot of fun to fill in with fun memories and personalized sentiments. There are many, many pages so be prepared to sit down and think of a lot of ideas to completely fill this book. I gave this to my boyfriend as a gift and he thought it was so sweet that he cried the good kind of tears. Very clever gift idea.” — Denise K

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Peony & Laces / Etsy
A set of long-distance relationship envelopes and notes to let them know you’re thinking of them even if you can’t be together for the holidays

Peony & Laces is a mom-owned small biz stationery store.

Promising review: “I absolutely love the quality of the envelopes. I got them for me and my boyfriend’s one-year anniversary, and I just know he is gonna absolutely love them.” — Ilaisah Mothershed

Shipping Info: Orders ship from Kansas, so delivery time depends on your location. Check the product listing for an estimated arrival date.

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An undying Lego rose bouquet because it’s two gifts in one!

This box includes bricks for a dozen roses (four in full bloom, four blossoming and four buds) and four sprigs of baby’s breath.

Promising review: “I ordered these Lego roses for my 4-year anniversary, and my fiance absolutely loved them. It took us about an hour and a half to put together whilst watching YouTube. We probably could’ve finished sooner, but we were taking our time and enjoying ourselves. Unlike real flowers, these will last forever. I plan on ordering a puzzle vase next to put these in. I highly recommend this product, especially as a gift for anniversaries, birthdays, Christmas, or what-have-you.” — Rome Volpe

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AllTrails
An AllTrails+ subscription if your other half is always itching to explore the great outdoors

With the Plus plan, you’ll get notifications if you stray from your route. You can also keep friends and family up to date on your location with Lifeline. And, 1% of every subscription is donated to a nonprofit that protects our planet.

Shipping Info: Purchase a gift card online that will arrive moments after you place the order. You can also choose to deliver your gift via email (you select the date the gift card will be emailed), or print it out and deliver it in person.

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Amazon
A Jeopardy 2025 daily calendar for testing your trivia-loving giftee’s knowledge

Each question has a different wager so you can track your winnings for the year.

Promising review:I don’t think I would be invited to Christmas dinner If this wasn’t under the tree! My mom’s favorite day-to-day desk calendar.” — LAM

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A heated back and neck massager so you both finally stop complaining about aches and pains

Promising review: “Are your loved ones sick of you asking for massages? When they massage, is it just not great? Story of my life. It starts out great, the relationship and the massages. Then they just do the very least possible to make it work, like dead fish hands. This massager never tells you no; it’s always there for you on a rough day. It understands those knots in your shoulders, and it does its best to make you feel better.” — Erin R.

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A Chi automatic curling iron to save your accident-prone partner’s fingers from curling iron burns

Promising review: “This was a gift from my husband. I have a few pros and cons I can share according to my experience. I have long, straight hair, and usually, it is very hard to hold any wave or curls longer than a few hours, no matter what. NOTE I have arthritis in my hands so this is heavy like a heavy blow dryer BUT once you get it up to hold it, it is easy to work with a press of a button. I applied gel to my wet hair and blow-dried it. Then I used this curler (the first few times, you need to learn how it works; I pulled my hair out easily), and it held my waves until the next wash 24 hours later. I love the big waves it gave. This is a 5-star product, and I highly recommend it!” — Amazon Customer

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A one-year couples journal that’ll kickstart fun, meaningful conversations like the ones you had during the early days of your relationship
Callisto Media

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Potter Style

Promising review (for the three-year journal): “I got this as an anniversary gift for our ‘paper’ anniversary. We have used it for 4 years now (we don’t answer a question every day). I love that the years are not prefilled, allowing us to use it for as many years as we have not answered all the questions. It’s very bonding to see how our lives have changed over the years (how our biggest priority went from getting pregnant to getting a full night of sleep). An easy 5-minute activity that can be picked up whenever you bond with your partner. Would recommend.” — Brielle West

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The newest AirPods Pro to help block out noise

Promising review: “I have purchased every generation of AirPods. When I first read the reviews here, before purchasing these AirPods, I thought people were perhaps exaggerating a bit. But after having them for two days, what they say is absolutely true. The sound is amazing. Light years better than the AirPods Pro 1. It’s hard to believe that the richness of sound and bass can actually be produced by these small speakers. The noise cancellation feature is outstanding; in fact, when I took them out of my ears, and was hit with the onslaught of actual live sound around me, I realized just how effective the noise filtration is. They’re comfortable, fit great in my ears, especially with the choices of circular ear pads that are included, and the battery life is so much better than the previous generation. Love these guys. Very satisfying purchase.” — M. SHAPIRO

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Amazon
A pair of magnetic hand-holding socks if you and your partner are the type of couple that needs to be touching each other constantly

Promising review: “My sister and I have had so much fun with these socks!!! They are super cute and the magnetic hold really well. The magnets are a bit big so you do notice them but overall super fun and cute.” — addison fullmer

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Local Eclectic
A Local Eclectic anniversaire charm for marking anniversaries or birthdays

Local Eclectic is a woman-founded and woman-run business based in Chicago.

I have two of these on my necklace: my partner’s birthstone and amethyst, which corresponds to our six years together. Jewelry is such a classic gift, so I particularly love that these charms have a deeper meaning beyond just looking pretty. I love my two charms so much that I’m very strongly considering getting charms for years one through five, so I’m up to date! And a side note: These charms are excellent fidget toys! I often find myself unconsciously playing with my necklace charms, and it’s very calming.

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Amazon
The Wand, a mini handheld filter designed to remove the histamines and sulfites in alcohol that may trigger headaches and hangovers

Read more about sulfite allergies and wine at Cleveland Clinic.

Promising review: “OMG!!!! This works. I love wine, but have terrible allergies to the histamines, sulfites, and preservatives in wine. I actually use one wand for two glasses of wine. I was very skeptical, but it works like a dream! Thank you, PureWine. This is really a breakthrough for me.” — Penny Froh

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An Apple AirTag to put a stop to your partner’s most-asked question: “Honey, can you call my phone?”

Promising review: “My husband is constantly looking for his wallet. The reason I purchased this is because he thought his wallet was stolen or lost. He backtracked to every store that he had been to, to no avail. Thus, we filed a police report and had to cancel all his business and personal bank cards. Lo and behold, the wallet was found, and I decided to purchase the tag. What a difference. He still misplaces his wallet, but at least he can track it down.” — iesopi

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A bougie Bartesian that’ll make you a craft cocktail with the alcohol of your choice

Add some drink capsules to the gift so they can use it right away!

I recently got to test out the newer version (I have the older version at home) and it’s got a lot of great updates. The LCD screen and rotary dial design make it so easy to use. And I love that you can choose the strength of your drink, including making it non-alcoholic, because some nights I don’t want alcohol but I do want a fun little drink.

Promising review: “I absolutely love it. It makes the drinks right on time — not too strong and not too weak. For my first cocktail, I thought it would be weak, so I clicked the brewer to strong. Oh boy, did it hand me my tail of being way too strong for my taste. So, I’ll stay with the average setting, which is just perfect for me. It was very easy to set up. Everything is labeled accordingly, and the dial is easy to use and read. Oh, and my hubby, who doesn’t drink, loves the flavor of mocktails. So kudos to Bartesian!! ❤️👍🏽🥰” — Dr. A.

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